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06|23|2007 12:48 pm EDT

More Olive Branches

by Adam Strong in Categories: Miscellaneous

olive branchRick Schwartz has emailed and posted on his forum the following message directed toward people caught up in the crossfire of the recent events. It’s a noble gesture.

Sometimes you have to burn a bridge to build a new bridge.
Sometimes you have to burn a bridge to build a new bridge. A better and stronger bridge.

Sometimes you have to clear the land to build a new structure and relationships.

As many of you have heard, we have buried the hatchet with Domain Sponsor. Ron Sheridan and I have kissed and made up. We hugged in public, shook hands and I feel it was genuine all the way around.

Howard and I had constructive meetings with Lawrence, Josh and Jeff as well as about everyone else at DS. I want to take a moment to publicly thank Chis Siverten (whose name I never spell right). But I want to thank Chris because I believe he was an important factor in having us come together.

So we move forward in a new spirit and hopefully this new bridge will be stronger and out last the old one.

So that brings me to what I would like from folks that if they choose, may come and go here freely again.

This IS my LIVING ROOM. It will REMAIN my living room. That is something that I ABSOLUTELY REFUSE to compromise on. If that is not acceptable. If that rubs you the wrong way. If you are going to hold a grudge against me. If you are going to challenge that in your mind or in your heart, let’s just be friends. We don’t have to interact with each other HERE. We can all communicate via many methods. Just this is my SANCTUARY. This is my home for invited guests. But please, those ARE my keys. Treat me and conduct yourselves like you were a GUEST in MY HOME. If you can’t do that, I can say no more.

So if we can get to a meeting of the minds there, then I can say what I need to say and hopefully good people with good hearts and find a way forward.

In my living room, I do not expect folks to promote competing events. You can do it on an infinite amount of websites and lots of other INDUSTRY boards, but PLEASE, not here. It’s just not right. Do it anywhere you like, just not here. Let ME take the lead in that department. If we are all cooperating it may not even be an issue.

It’s not a place to take pot shots at me. I don’t need that. I don’t want that. My TIME becomes wrapped up in “Just curious” stuff. I don’t like to ignore things, and feel compelled to respond when I just don’t have the TIME or energy to do it. It drains me and I don’t want that anymore. I don’t need to justify everything I do.

I am a sensitive person. I feel things deeply. I just want to be treated nice HERE. I am a pinnata out there. But this is my HOME and I want to be surrounded by people looking out for each others back as opposed to walking around with a target on my back. I have just always tried to do my best. Take all sides into account. And believe me folks, there are a lot of folks pulling or tugging me in one direction or another. My JOB is to take it all in. Consider it all. Make the best decision I can.

If TRAFFIC is just another “Tradeshow” and anyone is going to run around and saying things that are not positive and have under tones of negativity, then we can still be friends. We can interact. Just not HERE.

I don’t think I am asking much in return for devoting my TIME to what I believe has benefited everyone in the business. If you don’t think I have done good. Have done things that you have such venom in your heart for me, then please, you just don’t belong here and those folks are the ones I just want no part of. I don’t think that is unreasonable. That is MY TOS.

It’s OKAY if you don’t accept the terms. Just don’t say you do when you really don’t and you are out to undermine me, Howard, TRAFFIC at every turn. If THAT is who you are and SOME of you ARE in that camp, then I ask you to pause a moment and decide how YOU want to move forward. The burden is on you at THIS juncture. I have my heart open. It’s a tender heart. If you expect to poke that heart, or worse, let’s just agree to disagree and go our own ways. If you want to open your heart, then we can all move forward. It is your decisions and choice. I have only good will. If you fool me, that is on you. If you don’t believe that “What is said on the board, stays on the board, then we can’t go forward.

But if we can get thru these TINY hurdles, we can all do great things.

So that is my olive branch. Maybe you like it maybe you don’t. The board has been focused on business much more than personalities. Like Lawrence told me….we need to take the “DRAMA” out and communicate more. The personality nonsense out for there is no place for that. Can we do that? My hand is extended. My heart is open. I will do my part as well. That is my proposal. I can’t do more. I REFUSE to do less. If we can come to common ground, GREAT! If we can’t then that is just how it is and I guess we will all deal with it. Either way, I hope we can mend things, If not, it is ok.

I have not figured out how to get this info out to the folks in needs to get to. I may email them 1 at a time. I have to have a bit of time to figure out how to do this. Maybe with your help.

Right now I am exhausted and I can’t wait to get home and reflect on what we all accomplished this week and where we go from here. I hope we did what we promised at the show. I think we pulled it off. The folks seemed to be happy with things. They were THRILLED that DS and us were able to fix things and agree to work closer and cooperate and still remain competitors without trying to injure us.

And before I sign off, want to thank the folks at Sedo for the pre event. It showed there is a way to have functions that help each other. I hope it is a model we can use in the future that allows more of us to make it EASIER for those coming from Australia and other distant countries from flying back and forth more than necessary.

Oh well better shut up before I get in trouble. I hope the folks reading this know me well enough to know the spirit of what I have written. It is not a sign of weakness and I have never felt stronger. It is just doing my part to fix things and get on the right course. I can do no more than that. Hand extended. Heart opened. But ZERO tolerance from my beliefs and TOS.

Have a GREAT day.

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